Elements of Psychic Medium Readings
by Glenyce Hughes
A psychic medium communicates with the spirits of your loved
ones who have crossed over to the other side. When giving
a reading, a medium may see images of the spirits, hear the
voices of spirits, and sense both the presence and information
Giving a reading is similar to playing charades. As no
two people are alike, neither are two spirits alike. One
spirit may show the medium what they looked like when they
lived on this earth in order to validate who they are, another
may show the house they lived in. It is really up to the
spirit as to what information they share and the medium’s
ability to interpret the information and pass it on to you
in a way that you will understand it.
If you don’t recognize the spirit by the information
they pass on then it may be recommended you check your family
history, as there are times when people we have barely known
come in to say “Hi!” Sometimes they are people
who crossed over before the medium was born. The medium will
then ask the spirit what message it has for you, and you
will be given an opportunity to ask the spirit questions,
and then the medium will move on to another spirit as the
opportunity presents itself.
A psychic medium cannot guarantee who will come through
from the spirit world. If you have someone specific with
whom you would like to connect, the medium can focus their
energy on him or her but cannot make any promises. If there
is no connection made, please understand that that does not
mean your loved one is not in heaven. It could mean a couple
of things: they are otherwise busy (I like to say they are
off saving the world and cannot chat right then) or maybe
they are standing right in front of the medium jumping up
and down, but the energies are not connecting.
You will be given the opportunity to ask questions of your
loved ones who are in spirit—you are welcome to ask
any question. However, whether they answer or not will be
completely up to them. If you ask them if you should accept
a new job offer they will most likely give you guidance,
as opposed to specific answers. Once on the other side they
cannot interfere with our choices but they can help us out.
And please don’t ask them questions you know answers
to, such as, what was their nickname when they lived here
on Earth. Your loved one has worked hard to come to connect
with you at that moment and trivial questions don’t
often get answered.
When you go for an appointment the less a medium knows
about you and your loved one, the easier it is for them to
be sure they are making a clear connection. You will be asked
to validate that the information the medium is receiving
is correct. Psychic mediums are sensitive to your loss and
will honour you and the spirit with whom they are connecting.
This is done through love, respect, and compassion.
It is important to come to a reading with an open mind;
you don’t need to “believe” in the other
side in order to get a reading, just be open to the possibility.
It is also a good idea to come to the reading with some questions
prepared ahead of time. It is very easy to forget everything
once you are in a reading, so having the questions written
down will help.
Receiving a psychic medium reading can be extremely healing
for people dealing with a loss. The validation that a loved
one is still with us, even after they have crossed over,
is comforting, joyous, and enlightening.
Glenyce Hughes is a Psychic Medium
from Vermilion, AB, who travels extensively throughout Alberta
and Saskatchewan. She can be reached toll free at 1-866-807-0320
or on the web at www.telusplanet.net/public/rhughes.